tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3638454932870818047.post5128177598585895652..comments2017-11-03T21:19:02.832-07:00Comments on In A Rainy Daze: An Incomplete But Honest TruthRainhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11454167614908665080noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3638454932870818047.post-37947306880326358202013-12-20T13:09:17.041-08:002013-12-20T13:09:17.041-08:00*huggles* Whatever you are going through, I really...*huggles* Whatever you are going through, I really hope t gets better. I can't do anything for you at the moment, since I'm just on the internet. But hang in there, Rain.<br /><br />~PanicAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09008820843520850356noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3638454932870818047.post-75667091655684206102013-12-18T14:28:08.724-08:002013-12-18T14:28:08.724-08:00You just need to stop and take a moment, Rain. You...You just need to stop and take a moment, Rain. You're a wonderful girl, but you just don't listen. You think the world is against you, but its not. You just need to stop for a second sometimes and accept that you are young, but not in the terms of your age, but just in the place of where you as a whole. People have gone through a lot more worse things than you have, but I swear, if you ever give up then what the hell are you going to do to prove to people that you are stronger than what they give you credit for.<br /><br />People praise you, yes, but sometimes you just have to wrench your head out of your rear and come back to reality. Trust me, I've been told things to my face that have made me feel like the shittiest human alive, but I think of things and I think of where I am. I'm nearly 20, I'm still living with my parents, I barely have an education behind me and I have a really concerned mother over my weight and nine times out of ten, I'm uber depressed.<br /><br />You are a smart girl. You are at school and you are doing all that you can, but you listen to the wrong people. You let things bug you that you shouldn't and you really need to break out of that shell. There's a whole world out there for you to explore, but hiding away and bottling things up inside will never help.<br /><br />At the same time, you need to act like you're on the level of other people as well. Being smart isn't the same as being friendly/social. You need to understand that wha some people say isn't to hurt you and you shouldn't take it offensively as you do. I am only trying to help you wiht your writing and I understand that you've been having a really shitty time lately, but you have friends.<br /><br />I like to consider myself one of them. You've helped me so much, whether you believe that or not, but sometimes you need to take a spoonful of your own medicine and listen to your own advice. Life isn't easy, it's not like it was when I was younger and things were a lot more easier, but it's not going to get any better unless YOU make it better.<br /><br />First thing to do though, would just be to listen. Open up and stop acting like the world is against you when it's only trying to help. Life's a bitch, it'll throw you lemos and if you like lemonade, make it and smile. You've got a lot going on in life and a lot of support, but one day, you'll grow up into your 20's and you'll have to stand on your own two feet and take all the shit the world is throwing at you.<br /><br />But to make it better, you have to become a ninja too. It helps, it helps talking about things, but it also helps to let your defences down once in a while and let people in to help you. You know how mad I get wiht you when you say something as stupid as you suggested in the comments, but to me, it feels like you don't talk with your family. You should try that. Just pull them to the side and say that you need them. Five minutes of their time because you are their daughter.<br /><br />Pretending everything is okay until it's not doesn't help. Now, please, Rain, just calm down, take a breather and know that I am here for you with every kick up the arse I will be giving you to make you realise that I am your friend and I care about you a lot more than I should because I don't know you in person, but I know you in words and I know you through Wattpad and I know that you are a wonderful writer who just needs to drop her walls every now and then.<br /><br />Come home soon, alright? <br /><br />Because I ain't giving up on you, so don't you dare give up on us.<br /><br />-Monkey.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09557297407197558955noreply@blogger.com